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Grace is divine love bestowed
freely upon humankind.
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Guide to Grace
Grace is peace with ourselves, our communities and the world. Grace transforms concerns into joys. If we open ourselves to receive it, grace is always available. Grace is gratitude for our blessings, despite our circumstances. Grace is Heaven on Earth, that feeling of peace, joy and happiness. Sometimes Grace happens, seemingly by accident. Other times we can make grace happen. Following are quotations arranged in 12 steps to guide you on your path to grace.
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Practice Faith: Follow path of Enlightened
Compassion and Grace
"Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind and with all your strength." ~ Mark 12:30. "Take one step toward God and He takes 10,000 steps toward you, ~ Mohammed. Follow the Path (Tao). "My religion is kindness". ~ Dalai Lama. "Oh God, lead me from death to life . . . " ~ Upanishads. "Lord, make me an instrument of thy Peace" ~ Prayer of St. Francis. "Use me, God. Show me how to take who I am, who I want to be, and what I can do, and use it for a purpose greater than myself," ~ prayer quoted by Oprah. "i am through You so i." ~ e .e. cummings. Align your will with Ultimate Reality. Spiritual chiropractic - alignment of your will with the will of God. "The eye by which I see God is the very eye by which God sees me." ~ Meister Eckhart. Faith is not something you have, it is something you practice. Faith is a verb. Plug into the current of the Great Spirit. There is a loving wisdom greater than each of us, and we need to seek it out, to plug into it. Opposites coincide in God. God creates us we create God creates us we create God in a heaven-bound spiral. Experience the presence of God. Enjoy the precious present. Science teaches us how to know; religion teaches us how to love. Practice loving-knowing. "Let go and let God." "Be loving knowing" ~Ta Shu. To share serenity, be serene. To share love, be loving. To share God, be with God. The path is easier when you know your destination. "Life only has meaning if you impart meaning to it," ~ Patch Adams. Faith is the assurance of things hoped for, the conviction of things not seen.""God and compassion are one and the same." ~ Mother Teresa. Practice yoga: yoke yourself to the will of the divine. "God is a verb" ~Buckminster Fuller. Faith is a bridge crossing from despair to hope. "Faith may not change the facts, but it will change the way you relate to the facts." "Thy will be done," ~ Jesus of Nazareth.
Seek Joy: To Thine Own Self Be True.
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. . . and it must follow as night follows day thou canst not
be false to any man. ~ Shakespeare. "Desire, ask, believe,
receive." "Eat, drink and bounce a baby on your knee,"
~ Fly's philosophy professor. "The purpose of life is to
be happy," ~Tenzin Gyatso, the 14th Dalai Lama. The goal
of life is to survive and pass along your genes, and this is best
accomplished when you are happy and successful, which in turn
comes from helping others. "Follow your bliss," ~Joseph
Campbell. Individual happiness contributes to the improvement
of all humanity. An empty well gives no water. Ironically, "the
search for happiness is one of the chief sources of unhappiness."
"Self realization is the greatest gift to mankind,"
~ attributed to Buddha. "The moment we are one with ourselves,
we are one with all others," ~ Brother David Steindl-Rast.
If you wish to be selfishly happy, be altruistic. Mystical experience
has value in the amount it helps others. "Don't find yourself,
create yourself." Charity begins at home. "Peace of
mind is worth any chore," ~ Mary Black. Follow your North
Star." God lies at the intersection of your joy and another's
need.
Love Others: Be Compassionate
The secret to happiness is knowing loving others. Friends are
the emissaries of God. "Be with those who help your being,"
~ Rumi. The surest path to happiness is though compassion
to other sentient beings, ~ Dalai Lama. "Love your
neighbor as yourself," ~ Jesus of Nazareth. "Ours are
the arms with which God hugs and holds her children," ~ Sue
Thoele. God is love. Follow the Platinum Rule: Do unto others
as they would like to be done unto. "Treat people as if they
were what they ought to be and you help them become what they
are capable of being," ~ Johann Wolfgang von Goethe. Ask
others to be their best. Its harder to be kind than
to be clever ~ Jeff Bezos' Grandpa. "As you wish,"
~ Princess Bride. Interdependence is fundamental law of nature.
Definition of God: enlightened love and compassion. Open the roof.
Celebrate communion. Pay it forward. "The true worth of a
person is to be found in the colors an textures that come alive
in others." To have a friend, be a friend. "Love and
compassion is the universal religion,." ~ Dalai Lama. No
matter what the question, love is the answer. "Be compassionate
as God is compassionate," ~ Luke 6:36. "Growth in compassion
is the sign of growth in the life of spirit," ~ Marcus Borg.
Social ties are the cheapest medicine we've got. "A true
friend brings out the best, while knowing the worst," ~ Sue
Thoele. The fruit of love is service, which is compassion in action.
"Charity puts out sin as water puts out fire" - Islamic
saying. Love:See, Hear, Hold. Showing others their worthiness
is their greatest gift.
Seek Truth: Gather Knowledge
"Truth shall set you free." Jesus (John 8:31). Doubt
is the doorway to discovery. Learn from others and imagine for
yourself. Study and learn to know your best path. Seek and you
shall find. Only with knowledge can we know what others would
like and what is best for us. "The great aim of education
is not knowledge, but action,." ~ Herbert Spencer. Learn
from others, imagine for yourself. Reincarnate yourself by embodying
the best of others: read their books, listen to their music, and
view their art. Ask questions. Assume nothing. Take nothing personally.
Know history to repeat the best of it. Explore. When you lose,
dont lose the lesson. Magic is science not yet explained.
Free your mind so the rest can follow. The proper study of humankind
is humanity. Be aware. Be active, sympathetic, empathetic listener.
Learn the other persons point of view. Understand your emotions
before you act upon them. Gnothi seaton. Know thyself to know
others. "To you [who seek knowledge] has been given the secret
of the kingdom of God," ~ Jesus (Mark ). Knowledge is power.
Perceive extraordinary in the ordinary. Mystery is science not
yet explained. Metaphors are shadows of truth, not Truth itself.
"Sometimes the hardest part of learning something new, is
unlearning something old," Phil McGraw. "When you know
better, you do better," ~ Phil McGraw. Epinoia=truth revealed.
"Science and technology is the simplest way to serve humanity."
inventor of Google. "We shall not cease from exploration,
And the end of all our exploring Will be to arrive where we started
and know the place for the first time." ~T.S. Eliot. "Knowing
thyself is the best way to know others," ~ Niles Eldredge.
"Let us learn to dream and then perhaps we shall know the
truth," Kekule, discoverer of benzene structure. "All
good trips are, like love, about being carried out of yourself
and deposited in the midst of terror and wonder," ~ Pico
Iyer, in "Why we travel" "A good scientist is a
good skeptic." Dr. Rob Roy Ramey. "The pursuit of knowledge
is only one path to human fulfillment. ~ Daniel J. Boorstin. All
emotions give you energy to work with. Debbie and Carlos
Rosas. "When the student is ready, the teacher appears."
While a whole truth will set you free, a half truth will imprison
you. "To know good is to do it." "Thou shalt love
they neighbor as thyself." Jesus (Mark 12:31). The great
aim of religion is not enlightenment, but compassion.
Pray and Meditate
Prayer and meditation convert knowledge into wisdom. "Everything
we are is the result of what we have thought." ~ Dhammapada,
Buddhist text. Prayer is talking to God; meditation is listening
to God. "As a man thinketh in his heart, so is he."
Reframe. "What is the best story?" ~ Yann Martel. Practice
mindfulness. Meditation is emotional alchemy. Remember your goodness.
"It is by logic that we prove, but by intuition that we discover,"
~ Henri Poincaré. Use wisdom to plot the best course of
action. Plug into the Great Energy Force. Align your will with
the Will of Enlightened Compassion (God). What is best for all
concerned? Practice spiritual chiropractic. Thy Will be Done.
Desiderata. God, grant me the serenity to the acceptance
to accept the things I cannot change; courage to change the things
I can, and the wisdom to know the difference, ~ Reinhold
Niebuhr. Dream, hope, seek clarity. "I have a dream . . .
" ~ Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. Prayer is to the soul what
food is to the body. As you think, so you are. "In the beginning
was the Word. Set your intent through prayer and meditation.
Decide: Will this give me more power? Will this make me more loving?
Prayer cannot change the facts, but it can change the way your
relate to the facts. Remember good things about yourself. Communicate,
integrate thoughts, beliefs feelings, memories. Make decisions
as you would expect your child to make. Develop a strong spiritual
center to prevent external forces from pulling you off balance.
GUIDANCE = God U and I Dance. Go with the flow. "Once he
knows his true worth, he can know the worth of others." Swami
Muktananda. "Change your thoughts and you change your world."
~ Norman Vincent Peale. "Will this bring more love into the
world?" Meditation = thoughts detached from emotion. Have
faith. Is the universe a friendly place? "We forget to pray
for the angels and the angels forget to pray for us." ~ Leonard
Cohen. "To attain knowledge, add things every day. To attain
wisdom, subtract things every day," ~Lao Tsu. Think positively.
Listen to intuition and then give reason to it. "Solitude
is the furnace of transformation," ~ Henri Nouwen. Don't
ask God to take away the problem, but rather ask for strength
to deal with it. "Imagination is more important that knowledge"
~ Albert Einstein. "Dreamers are the saviors of the world"
~ James Allen. Awareness of suffering paradoxically releases one
from suffering. Ask: where am I, where do I want to be, and how
do I get there?
"If you want peace, work for justice." Conflict is inevitable, suffering is optional. "Out of your vulnerabilities will come your strength." ~ Sigmund Freud. "Just when the caterpillar thought the world was over, it became a butterfly," ~anon. "Fight the worst with the best," ~ Wendell Barry. "Conflict is necessary for all life," ~ Terry Dobson and Victor Miller. The compassionate warrior protects her opponent. Seek win win. "Have a soft heart and a hard ass." ~ Martha Beck. If you don't experience conflict, you're not alive. Harmonious resolution of conflict = shalom. "Understanding the problem is half the solution." ~ Mom. In times of peace, prepare for war. Eliminate enemies by converting them to friends. "Go placidly amid the noise and haste ..." People learn from their own decisions. "You can do anything you want, provided it doesn't cause a problem for others." Seek forgiveness as you forgive others. Put insults into a mental wastebasket. Israel means struggle with God. People's greatest fear is rejection and alienation. Alienation is modern term for sin. When you choose the behavior, you choose the consequences. Pain is a messenger. Understand human nature. If you try to please everyone, you will lose your ass. Pray to God, but tie up your camel. Experiencing life is like giving birth: painful but worthwhile. Misery loves company. "To prevent questions from weighing us down, we must raise them up." Be at peace not knowing all the answers. "To be wronged is nothing, unless you continue to remember it," ~ Confucius. "Every exit is an entry somewhere else," ~ Tom Stoppard. "When God closes a door, He always opens a window." Honor your top priorities: If its not an absolute yes, then it's a no," Cheryl Richardson. "Darkness cannot drive out darkness; only light can do that. Hate cannot drive out hate; only love can do that." ~ Martin Luther. You will know grace always when you are as grateful for pain as you are for joy.
Communicate
Communicate to know the hearts and minds of others to best help
them. Communication is the basis of all relationship. Effective
communication is nine parts listening, one part talking. "Silence
sometimes speaks more than words." Try to see the others
point of view. "Seek first to understand, then to be understood."
Simplify the message. "If you can't explain it to your grandmother,
then you probably don't understand it yourself." ~ Albert
Einstein. "Speak assuming good faith from those who disagree
with you." ~ Peggy Noonan. "Your voice is your power."
~ Oprah. Rules of conversation: pay attention, show respect, be
kind, have fun. Make eye contact. "Before you speak, ask
yourself: Is it kind, is it necessary, is it true, does it improve
upon the silence?" ~ Shirdi Sai Baba, Indian Sage. "'I
hear you' -- the most important words we can hear." ~ Oprah.
People's willingness to listen goes down after 1st criticism.
Tell stories. Speak kindly to yourself. Write thank you letters.
"Ask and ye shall receive. Give and ye shall receive priority."
How may I help? "The pen is mightier than the sword. "You
must understand someone's views before you can change those views."
The seed falls on beaten path, rocky soil, weedy soil or fertile
soil. A good teacher's student will exceed the teacher. Three
gatekeepers of the tongue: is it true, is it kind, is it necessary?
Students retain: 10% of what they read, 20% of what they hear,
30% of what they see, 50% of what they see and hear, 70% of what
they say, 90% of what they do. "Listen, or thy tongue will
keep thee deaf," ~American Indian Proverb. Don't talk unless
you improve the silence. Confession clenses the soul.
Laugh: Shift happens
A smile is a frown turned upside down. "Laughter is the
shortest distance between two people." ~ Victor Borge. Laughter
shifts your perspective. "Blessed are those that can laugh
at themselves, for they shall never cease to be amused,"
~ anon. Tragedy + Time = Comedy. Angels fly because they take
themselves lightly. Awareness of self leads to laughter. Laughter
is the best medicine. Laughter is the ability to see life with
detachment. Be a master of jujitsu wit. Smile. "If you obey all
the rules, you miss all the fun," ~ Katherine Hepburn. Music
is laughter of the universe. Find something funny in your situation.
Humor is seeing your fear carried to its illogical extreme. "Laughter
is a psychological Drano that breaks up mental clogs, allowing
your thoughts, feelings, intuitions and actions to flow freely."
~ Martha Beck. Laughter is social glue. To find humor in your
situation, exaggerate the consequences to cosmic (comic) proportions.
Embrace bad luck: it's material for comedy. "You can learn
more about a man in an hour of play than in a year of conversation,"
~ Plato. "I'm not suffering from insanity: I enjoy every
minute of it," ~ T-shirt. "How do we measure success?
To laugh often and much," ~ Ralph Waldo Emerson. Humor is
the flip side of sadness. Humor is the yin of sadness' yang. "Life
is too important to be taken seriously," ~ Oscar Wilde. "Life
is a tragedy for those who feel, a comedy for those who think,"
La Bruyere. "Humor is the prelude to faith and laughter the
beginning of prayer," ~ Reinhold Niebur.
Work
"Work is love made visible," ~ Khalil Gibran. In service there is true life. "To work for the common good is the highest creed." ~ Albert Schweitzer. The most highly paid* work gives most service to others. (*Payment may be spiritual or material.) Honor your calling. Find your passion. Dignity of labor. Doing good and remembering what you did are ingredients of success. Live for today, but prepare for the future. "We were born to make manifest the glory of God that is within us." ~ Marianne Williamson. Focus. Channel what you love to do into what others will love. "Every calling is great when greatly pursued." ~ Oliver Wendell Holmes. "The purpose of life is a life of purpose." "Use me, God. Show me how to take who I am, who I want to be, and what I can do, and use it for a purpose greater than myself," ~ prayer quoted by Oprah. "Trust in God as if everything depends on him, but work as if everything depends on you," ~ Ignacious of Loyola, founder of Jesuits. Faith without deeds is nothing. "Get up off your knowledge, ~ "Phil McGraw. "We make a living by what we get but we make a life by what we give," ~Winston Churchill. Patient persistence provides pleasurable progress. Discipline is the bridge between goals and accomplishment. Figure out what you like doing best and get someone to pay you for it. "I'll fix that." ~ Sam in Holes. Creativity is your medicine. The only place
success comes before work is in the dictionary.
Care for Your Temple
"In Wilderness is the preservation of the world" ~ Henry David Thoreau. You cannot care for others until you care for yourself and your environment. Everyday renew your body, mind and spirit with good food, exercise and rest. "Sweat your prayers," ~ Gabriella Roth. Dance for Universal Peace. "Move into stillness," ~ Eric Schiffmann. Care for your environment by cleaning, decluttering, beautifying, and caring for your home, your neighborhood and the Earth. "Whatever befalls the Earth, befalls the children of the Earth." ~ Chief Seattle. Keep the Sabbath holy. Be in GRACE: Grounded, Relaxed, Aware, Centered, Energized. "To still the mind, move the body." ~ Gabriella Roth. A cluttered house is a cluttered mind. Cleanliness is next to godliness. Meditation in Motion. TranscenDance. Dance your prayers. Your body is the temple of your spirit. Move into stillness. You are how you move. Dance: outer expression of inner spirit. Choreograph your own development. Improve the world one dance at a time. To live is to dance. If you stumble, make it part of the dance. Dance like no one's watching. Healthy hearts share more love. "There are shortcuts to happiness and dancing is one of them"" ~ Vicki Baum. Rest. "Your body is like a snowglobe: it glitters when moved," ~ Sue Thoele.
Be courageous: Do your Best
"Courage is fear that has said it’s prayers." Success comes from perseverance, not perfection. Look to this day. "Today is the first day of the rest of your life." Your character is of supreme worth. Make each day a masterpiece. ?Having the courage to stand up and pursue your dreams will give you life’s greatest reward and life’s greatest adventure? ~ Oprah. "It isn't’t easy for anybody" ~ William Goldman. "Believe in yourself despite what others believe," ~ Whoopi Goldberg. "10% is what life brings to you. 90% is what you do about it," Alice Crowe. "Think of adversity as a test for love and forgiveness," Hilary Rodham Clinton. Where are we? Where do we want to go? How do we get there? To get to your impossible destination, you have to focus on only the immediate point in front of you; forget everything else surrounding that point and you will get where you’re going." ~ Carlos Castaneda. Be gentle with yourself - you can do no better than your best. Put on your ability suit. If you're not an example, you're a warning. Take a risk. The person who makes no mistakes is the person who makes nothing. "Time you enjoy wasting is not wasted time," ~ Bertrand Russell. "Fatigue makes cowards of us all." Take responsibility for your actions. Be accountable. Confidence, keep your word, follow through, keep commitments. "Whatever you think you can do or believe you can do, begin it. Action has magic, grace and power in it," ~ Goethe. "Little by little," ~ Mister Rogers. "I can do all things through God who strengthens me." Intention. Attitude is everything. Pretend confidence to realize confidence. Wounds are the doorway to consciousness. "No Christian can be a pessimist, for Christianity is a system of radical optimism."
Give Thanks
"A grateful heart is a happy heart," ~ little girl in Madame Blueberry. "Appreciation is the purest, strongest form of love." ~ anon. To be happy and successful is to be in a state of grace. To have grace, give grace. Be a disciple of gratitude. "The discipline of gratitude is the explicit effort to acknowledge that all I am and have is given to me as a gift of love, a gift to be celebrated with joy." ~ Rev. Henri J. M. Nouwen, Catholic Priest. To be in grace is to be grateful. Take nothing for granted. "If the only prayer you ever say is 'thank you' that would suffice. ~ Meister Eckhart. "When you realize that nothing is lacking, the whole world belongs to you." ~ Lao Tzu. "Gratitude is the realization that we have everything that we need." MJ Ryan. "Celebrate what you want to see more of." ~ Tom Peters. Honor your elders, teachers and leaders. "If you haven't got all the things you want, be grateful for the things you don't have that you don't want. " ~ Anonymous. What secret gift lies in what troubles you? Saying grace gives grace, the state of loving, expanded, ecstatic, joyful, connected, transcendence. See the world through grateful-colored glasses. Gratitude is acknowledgment of interdependence. "The greatest gift one can give is thanksgiving." Brother David Steindl-Rast. Give grace to get grace. Gratitude gives you the Grace of God.
Compiled by Catherine G.M. Russell. First conceived September 10th, 2002. Redrafted December 3, 2002. June 19, 2003. September 9, 2003. November 17, 2003. July 10, 2004, April 28, 2005. September 8, 2005.
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